“How can I have the perfect wedding?” The answer is remarkably simple, but isn’t often found on instagram or wedding blogs. I’ll spill the tea though.
Here’s the recipe for a perfect wedding. It’s a simple five step process:
- Be here now. Don’t stress about perfect. Being fully present means so much more.
- Show up with gratitude, and express it. To each other. To the people you care about. To God or the universe.
- Bring the community you care about together. Tell your people you care about them.
- Have enough of a schedule organized that you can just show up and enjoy life. And then be willing to change that schedule if life happens differently.
- Don’t hold back. Laugh. Cry. Dance. No faking it allowed. Life happens once.
That’s the secret sauce. Presence, gratitude, community, celebration. The rest of it is icing on the cake (it’s a great cake. It’s yours after all.).
